Welcome to THE RED TEMPLE 
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

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General Questions

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What is The Red Temple?
The Red Temple is a sacred space offering events, workshops, and immersive experiences focused on sacred sexuality, empowerment, and embodied healing.

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What are the values of The Red Temple?
The Red Temple creates sacred spaces where individuals of all genders and backgrounds can explore and embrace their embodied sexuality, deepen their connection to self, and experience personal growth. Through trauma-informed practices, inclusive offerings, and sacred sexuality teachings, we aim to empower people to connect with their authentic desires, heal past wounds, and cultivate deeper intimacy, trust, and safety in relationships. We are committed to fostering a community built on respect, integrity, and impeccability, where safety is prioritized and every individual is supported in their journey of self-expression, healing, and empowerment.

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Who is the event for?
Our events are open to all genders and non-binary individuals between the ages of 18-55. Each event description will specify if there are any additional requirements or audience specifics. Certain, private events are open to ages 18-45.

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Who owns The Red Temple?
The Red Temple and its associated websites are owned and operated by Daniel Grace and Deborah Wolf (Kantor) ABN 33145984653.

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Do I need prior experience to attend?
No prior experience is necessary. Our events welcome beginners and those already exploring sacred sexuality, embodiment, and healing.

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Where are your events held?
We host events across Australia, with a focus on Brisbane, and a home base in Byron Bay and Northern NSW. Locations vary, so check individual event listings for details.

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How many people attend your events?
Our events can range between 50-70 guests, ranging between singles and couples, between 18-55.

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Workshops & Events

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What can I expect at a Red Temple event?
Each event is unique, but most include a mix of guided embodiment practices, breathwork, movement, ritual, and sacred sexuality teachings in a safe and supportive space. As well as experiences with Doms and Shibari artists. The night concludes with Temple play, where individuals are able to connect in a more intimate way.

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What do I wear to an event?
We encourage you to dress sexy, wear lingerie, kinky outfits, or embrace nudity if you feel comfortable. This is a space of self-expression and freedom—honor your body and what feels good for you.

 

Is nudity or sexual interaction involved?
Our work is deeply body-based and trauma-informed, but participation is always at your own comfort level. Some events may include optional nudity, but there is never pressure or expectation.

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Can I bring a friend or partner?
Yes! Many events are open to individuals, friends, couples and thrupples. 

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Can I attened solo?

Our events are specially designed for solo travelers and partnered.

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Is photography taken at your events?
Yes, we do take photos, but we offer you a red armband at the door if you do not wish to be published in any photos. Our photos are for promotional use only and do not include any nudity or temple play.

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Can I purchase anything at your events?

Absolutely! At our events, we sell a variety of sexy, kinky toys, including paddles, floggers, and our famous Pussy Candies—an aphrodisiac insertable lube candy that offers hours of sensitivity and pleasure.​

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Inclusivity, Safety & Confidentiality

 

How do you ensure a safe space?
We create a nurturing, trauma-informed environment where boundaries, consent, and nervous system regulation are central. All facilitators are trained in creating a culture of consent, and participation is always optional. If at any stage during or after the event that you feel unsafe, please approach Deborah or Daniela, as they are both trauma-informed trained.

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Is The Red Temple an inclusive space?
Absolutely. We are committed to creating an inclusive, welcoming, and non-judgmental environment. Our events are open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship styles. We embrace diverse bodies, expressions, and abilities, and we actively cultivate a space of mutual respect, consent, and empowerment.

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Can I just watch?

Participation is optional, you are welcome to experience being a voyeur during your attendance and jump in when it feels right for you.

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Is what happens at The Red Temple confidential?
Yes. Confidentiality is key to our work, and we ask all participants to respect and uphold this agreement.

 

What if my boundaries are crossed during an event?
Your safety is our top priority. If you ever feel uncomfortable or if your boundaries are crossed, please inform a facilitator immediately. We have a clear protocol for addressing boundary violations, which includes supporting you, removing individuals who do not respect consent, and creating a space where you feel heard and safe.

 

I have previous sexual trauma. How can I be safe at this event?
We deeply honor those who have experienced trauma and understand that this work can be sensitive. Here’s how we support you:
 

• Trauma-informed facilitation: Our facilitators are trained to create a space that prioritizes safety, choice, and autonomy.

• Clear boundaries & consent practices: You will always have the option to opt in or out of any practice, and no physical interaction is ever required.

• Safe spaces: If you need to take a break or step out, you are always welcome to do so.

• Pre-event communication: If you have specific needs or concerns, feel free to reach out before the event so we can offer additional support.
   

If at any point you need assistance, we are here to help you navigate the experience in a way that feels safe and empowering for you. Please keep in mind that if you are highly triggered around sexual behavior, that this event may not be for you yet at this stage of your journey. We do not offer individualized therapy at this event as we are catering to a large group of people.

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Booking & Payments

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How do I book an event?
You can book via our website or through event links shared on our social media pages.

 

What is your cancellation policy?
We do not offer refunds except for in serious circumstances, and ask for a medical certificate to be issued, from there we can offer you a credit to our next event or a refund.

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Kink Coaching
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I want to learn more, do you offer private Kink Coaching?

Yes we do! We believe in creating safe spaces to explore sacred Kink in a heart-led and trauma-informed way and offer private sessions for individuals, couples and groups.

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Kink Coaching is available for:

• 1:1 Sessions (90 min) – $220

• Couples Sessions (90 min) – $300

• Group Facilitation, Workshops, Kinky Hen’s Nights (Email us for a quote)
   

Who is it for?

• People new to Kink who want a safe and supportive space to explore.

• Experienced Kinksters who need support in deepening their practice.

• Individuals or couples who feel blocked, disconnected, or carrying trauma around their sexual expression.

• Individuals or couples who are wanting to discover more about their sexuality and kinks
   

What happens in a session?

• A safe, non-judgmental space where your boundaries are celebrated.

• Support in unpacking any trauma, shame, or resistance around your sexuality.

• Guided practices to connect with your desires, power, and embodied eroticism.

• Tools to establish trust, safety, and communication in your exploration.

• Understanding erotic-parts work to create wholeness

• Learning about consent, boundaries, how to create a scene, and aftercare

• A non-sexual session, that is trauma-informed, educational and therapy-based
   

Sessions are held in-person (Tweed - Byron Bay) and online.

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How can I find out more about the facilitators

DANIELA GRACE: https://www.danielagrace.org/

DEBORAH WOLF: https://www.deborahwolf.com.au/​​​

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Private Events​​

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Can I hire you for private events?

Absolutely! We offer private event facilitation for group gatherings, including parties, bachelorette events, hens nights, and birthdays. We’ll bring the essence of The Red Temple to you, creating a fun, engaging, and educational experience for all. Please note, this is non sexual —our focus is on entertainment, education, and empowerment.

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Questions, Comments & Feedback​​​

Feel free to get in touch with us if you have any further questions, comments or feedback.​​​